HOW LIFE TAUGHT ME TO HAVE MORE TRUST IN MYSELF

As long as you know yourself and you got good people around you and you passionate about what you do, that’s all that matters because, at the end of the day, you go to sleep with the people you love, you wake up with the people you love, and you spend your time with the people you love

Often in the silence of the night or on a very boring day, I lose myself in thoughts and think of all the experience I already have and I can’t help myself so I ask myself. How many times did I fell down and got up alone? aware that I had to rely on myself alone. How many times have I preached calmness to bring peace to the lives of those around me … when in my life I needed her so much … how often I have given myself to whom even the word of respect doesn’t deserve it?

How many times have I used the mask of the smile for even remember how to smile. How many times have I cried and hid my tears behind an invented yawn … a fake speck in the eye, or covered with a piece of sheet. How many things have I done to be the one everyone wanted and needed … the one who is always well … the one who has a solution for everything … who has a hug and a hug always ready to give. How many emotions denied to hide this fragility that no one knows because it is not allowed for me to feel.

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To know yourself as the Being underneath the thinker, the stillness underneath the mental noise, the love, and joy underneath the pain is freedom, salvation, enlightenment

All this experience of sadness no matter how hard they are, it has taught me to get to know myself better so that I can trust myself more, because knowing yourself is power, it’s a power that you don’t want to give to someone else and it gives us a leap, we begin to take better care of ourselves, we realize our abilities, the capacity we have to fully perform everything we want, and we will want what makes us good.

Knowing that we all have abilities and defects, yet we have the ability to improve our faults, we have facilities for certain peculiarly individual things, when we know each other better, we develop clarity in vision, perception, and understanding of things as they are, we create and invent inventories, decide, act, and control our body and soul, excluding the unwanted, and empowering feelings, empowering our psyche itself, reaching a liberating state, where we do not depend on anything and make it happen, speaking as a student of psychology .

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I’ve always thrown myself into different kinds of experiences, sometimes into really bad things. But, you grow up. You become more of a woman and you know yourself. I think knowing yourself is a wonderful thing especially when you’re in your in a certain age and you’re kind of in your skin. Life is not so confusing anymore.

Now speaking as a human being with good intentions, seeking to improve, I have discovered that there are certain things, whatever, professional, personal, social, the moment we discover and enjoy our strengths, we realize that in certain experiences and experiences, we produce more with less physical and mental wear, while other actions require us much, wearing down our energy, and producing less doing more. What results in a certain time, in impulsive actions and decisions. That is, discover and do what is good for you, with kindness towards you and your neighbor or people nearby you.

I learned to be grateful for what I have, and today what I really own is me, everything that I built throughout my life was my personality, the essence that few will know, and want to know? Better this way, because you have to be different to try to dare to know in depth, and even then it will not help knowing if you don’t know what to do with so much information.

How much and what other emotions will I have to hide from everyone before I can say, I’m here … I’m a hug … smile and a smile … but I’m also tears and hiccups.

The fashion world is so interesting because it’s always changing, but if you know yourself really well, despite all the changes in fashion trends, you know how to stay true to yourself.