As long as you know yourself and you got good people around you and you passionate about what you do, that’s all that matters because, at the end of the day, you go to sleep with the people you love, you wake up with the people you love, and you spend your time with the people you love
Often in the silence of the night or on a very boring day, I lose myself in thoughts and think of all the experience I already have and I can’t help myself so I ask myself. How many times did I fell down and got up alone? aware that I had to rely on myself alone. How many times have I preached calmness to bring peace to the lives of those around me … when in my life I needed her so much … how often I have given myself to whom even the word of respect doesn’t deserve it?
How many times have I used the mask of the smile for even remember how to smile. How many times have I cried and hid my tears behind an invented yawn … a fake speck in the eye, or covered with a piece of sheet. How many things have I done to be the one everyone wanted and needed … the one who is always well … the one who has a solution for everything … who has a hug and a hug always ready to give. How many emotions denied to hide this fragility that no one knows because it is not allowed for me to feel.

To know yourself as the Being underneath the thinker, the stillness underneath the mental noise, the love, and joy underneath the pain is freedom, salvation, enlightenment
All this experience of sadness no matter how hard they are, it has taught me to get to know myself better so that I can trust myself more, because knowing yourself is power, it’s a power that you don’t want to give to someone else and it gives us a leap, we begin to take better care of ourselves, we realize our abilities, the capacity we have to fully perform everything we want, and we will want what makes us good.
Knowing that we all have abilities and defects, yet we have the ability to improve our faults, we have facilities for certain peculiarly individual things, when we know each other better, we develop clarity in vision, perception, and understanding of things as they are, we create and invent inventories, decide, act, and control our body and soul, excluding the unwanted, and empowering feelings, empowering our psyche itself, reaching a liberating state, where we do not depend on anything and make it happen, speaking as a student of psychology .

I’ve always thrown myself into different kinds of experiences, sometimes into really bad things. But, you grow up. You become more of a woman and you know yourself. I think knowing yourself is a wonderful thing especially when you’re in your in a certain age and you’re kind of in your skin. Life is not so confusing anymore.
Now speaking as a human being with good intentions, seeking to improve, I have discovered that there are certain things, whatever, professional, personal, social, the moment we discover and enjoy our strengths, we realize that in certain experiences and experiences, we produce more with less physical and mental wear, while other actions require us much, wearing down our energy, and producing less doing more. What results in a certain time, in impulsive actions and decisions. That is, discover and do what is good for you, with kindness towards you and your neighbor or people nearby you.
I learned to be grateful for what I have, and today what I really own is me, everything that I built throughout my life was my personality, the essence that few will know, and want to know? Better this way, because you have to be different to try to dare to know in depth, and even then it will not help knowing if you don’t know what to do with so much information.


How much and what other emotions will I have to hide from everyone before I can say, I’m here … I’m a hug … smile and a smile … but I’m also tears and hiccups.
The fashion world is so interesting because it’s always changing, but if you know yourself really well, despite all the changes in fashion trends, you know how to stay true to yourself.

24 Comments
Melanie Hoogvliet
20 June 2019 at 15:31Wat een prachtig verhaal en je hebt een super mooie stijl.
Mandy
18 June 2019 at 17:48Oh wauw.. wat een prachtige blog heb je geschreven en zeker herkenbaar! Mooie outfit en foto’s!
Nadia
25 March 2019 at 08:05Wat een gave kleren combinatie! En wat mooi geschreven, goed om je dat te realiseren!
Julia Veenstra
22 March 2019 at 22:45Ooh daar is ze weer met de heerlijke kleding combinaties. Helemaal top weer.
Sandra
22 March 2019 at 11:58Wat staat die kleurencombinatie je beeldig! Bovendien kom je zo ook als een heel sterke persoon over
Lizzie
22 March 2019 at 08:11Heel erg mooi. Goed voor anderen om te realiseren.
Saskia
22 March 2019 at 08:06Mooi verhaal. Hele mooie foto’s. Jou staat alle wel goed lijkt het
Lianne - geendierenindekeuken
21 March 2019 at 11:34Mooi stuk! En prachtige foto’s ook, die kleding staat je fantastisch!
Stefaan De Winter
21 March 2019 at 10:49Ik vind die fluffie jassen altijd de max als ik ze iemand aan zie en ze staat je super 🙂
Henk
21 March 2019 at 10:18die rode kleding maakt je wel heel sterk, ziet er goed uit!
orriens nicole
21 March 2019 at 09:04Je zo nu en dan bewust worden van de persoon die je bent is een goede zaak. Soms verlies je jezelf in de drukte van de dag, en dan is het goed om even stil te staan is mijn ervaring.
Wanda
20 March 2019 at 19:56Volgens mij beschik je over voldoende zelfvertrouwen want dat straal je in ieder geval wel uit met zo’n outfit!
An Van Assche
20 March 2019 at 10:46Nice pics! I love the boots.
Dhini
20 March 2019 at 08:56Die fluffy jassen zijn echt mooi. Ze zien heerlijk zacht en warm
Laura
20 March 2019 at 07:00Wat ben je toch mooi!
Skincarebynaomi
19 March 2019 at 21:59Wat een prachtig artikel. Sterk!
Karin
19 March 2019 at 21:03Jezelf kennen is zo belangrijk, daar heb je gelijk in. Ik ben trouwens dol op de felle kleuren van je outfit!
Mariska van Rijswijk
19 March 2019 at 20:59Beautifull words and stunning pictures! I love your insights!
yousra Yasmine.nl
19 March 2019 at 20:32Wauw wat een prachtige outfit, mooie combinatie met die kleuren! Het staat je super goed!
Manon
19 March 2019 at 20:14Mooie quote aan het begin van dit artikel! En wat kan jij kleur goed hebben zeg.
Maaike
19 March 2019 at 19:50Wat een mooie opvallende kleuren. Staat je prachtig.
Janet
19 March 2019 at 19:45Wat een heerlijke outfit, staat je goed. Ik vind vooral de trui erg mooi.
Henk
19 March 2019 at 15:39mensen om je heen verzamelen die je steunen en er voor je zijn maakt het leven veel mooier, dat doe je goed!
nicole orriens
19 March 2019 at 10:44Oh, ik ben dol op die kleurencombinatie! Ik combineert zelf ook graag paars en roze met rood : )