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WE MUST ALLOW OURSELVES TO IMPROVE

 


When it comes to improving we always have this negative feeling or thought, that tries to involve our mind in proving that we want to improve on us because there is something wrong with our lives. Improvement is something we all want and need in any space of our lives. There is always something to improve. When I refer to improving, I don’t mean that things are not quite good the way they are. But I mean that we shouldn’t be comforted by what we have and limited ourselves to want to improve something that may get even  better.

Never be afraid to fail. Failure is only a stepping stone to improvement. Never be overconfident because that will block your improvement.

We shouldn’t limit ourselves to wanting to improve certain things around us or even in our lives. Obviously, when we want to improve things in our lives, we also need to learn how to leave the things that are comfortable, trustworthy and experienced to us. Improvement always starts with a criticism both negative and positive. From my own experience, being critical  is the best reference we can have for ourselves, so we can be able to improve ourselves. When we aren’t completely satisfied with the situation we are in, we soon feel the needing that things should change. Because these feelings, are coming from ourselves. We quickly make room for improvement and the acceptance can come easily and quickly. Without adversity against our own negative consequences.

By admitting your inadequacies, you show that you’re self-aware enough to know your areas for improvement – and secure enough to be open about them.

The moment we start to accept improvement, everything may go much easier. But when we get criticism from someone else, it can come very hard, before we take the steps to improve things. There is a chance that we first start to question everything and look for confirmation from other people. This can make the entire improvement process difficult and it may have a negative consequences. It’s important  to be crystal and honest with ourselves before we make a decision to improve something in our own lives.About my outfit: I have this blazer for a while now and when bought it I knew I wanted to wear it with a white pant. But I couldn’t find a good one until this past sale. I find this one and I thought is the perfect pants for my blazer. I wanted to wear all white but with some color, because it’s the beginning of spring. Not that I need spring to wear colors hahaha. But in this case, I wanted to start the new season with some natural colors. I don’t like to mix around colors, I like to mix three or more color in my outfits. But this time I wanted to improve my color craziness so I really tried to keep it bold and classic. For this look, I kept my makeup very natural which I’m really loving it for this look. I hope you like it as much as I like it.

You see, greatness for a state doesn’t require some huge monument for all to see. It is not a journey to a particular destination – but a commitment to follow a course of constant and never-ending improvement.

Espero que você goste. Tenha um dia bonito e que Deus te abençoe, acima de tudo as suas expectativas
– COM MUITO AMOR, MET VEEL Liefde, COM MUITO AMOR –
– HERCHAPTER – Por Custodia Chineva-

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34 Comments

  • Reply
    The lemon kitchen
    25 May 2018 at 09:52

    OMG! So beautiful, i love the combination of yellow and white. So powerful and lovely

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    Annapoorni
    20 April 2018 at 11:22

    Looking amazing in this outfit white is my favourite color too

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    Susan | Since1994
    1 April 2018 at 22:15

    Echt een hele toffe outfit! Wit staat mij helaas voor geen meter 🙁

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    marjolein westerbaan
    1 April 2018 at 21:45

    Wow, you are looking great again with a superb message again, love it

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      Custòdia
      2 April 2018 at 19:34

      Thank you so much, I appreciate you for reading it … <3

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    Wanda
    1 April 2018 at 11:23

    Verbetering begint altijd in de eerste plaats bij jezelf, eerst aan jezelf werken in plaats van verwachten dat de omgeving dit doet.

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    Nicole Orriëns
    1 April 2018 at 10:33

    Het is inderdaad belangrijk om jezelf de ruimte en de kans te geven om jezelf te verbeteren!

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    Grassiella
    31 March 2018 at 21:28

    Beautifull message your sending out here ?

    • Reply
      Custòdia
      31 March 2018 at 23:00

      I appreciate you for reading it, thank you so much <3 :*

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    An
    31 March 2018 at 20:34

    Strong message!!

    • Reply
      Custòdia
      31 March 2018 at 22:59

      Thank you so much for reading it <3 :*

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    Linda
    31 March 2018 at 19:15

    Je draagt een hele fijne outfit, en ik vind het mooi om te zien hoe je jouw outfit net iets spannender maakt met de clutch. Love it. En zelf vind ik persoonlijke groei ook heel erg belangrijk, net als doelen stellen. En werk er dan ook graag aan ☺️

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      Custòdia
      31 March 2018 at 23:02

      Ik vond het ook een uidaging, maar wegens de lente dacht ik waarom niet, ik heb hem ook niet lang aangehad hahaha, zo lief van je dat je het mooi vindt. Groeien is inderdaad heel belangrijk net als doelen stellen, dank je wel voor het lezen 🙂 <3 :*

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    Bianca Schrijft
    31 March 2018 at 17:11

    Wat een super mooi pak, maar wel gedurfd in het wit. Dat blijft hier geen uur schoon. ? Hele mooie en krachtige tekst heb je geschreven. Ik ben voor mezelf van de stilstand is achteruitgang. Aan de ene kan hard, maar ik haat stilstaan.

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      Custòdia
      31 March 2018 at 23:05

      hahha klotp het blijf inderdaad niet lang schoon, ik heb hem gelukkig niet lenge aan gehad hahah. leif van je dat je de tekst krachtig voond, dat waarder ik,xx <3 :*

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    Judith
    31 March 2018 at 16:01

    Improvement is so important! Even if it’s with little steps..

    • Reply
      Custòdia
      31 March 2018 at 23:07

      indeed, it is very important to keep improving ourselves… thank you for reading it <3

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    Laura | I scream beauty
    31 March 2018 at 14:55

    Die witte blazer is zo mooi!!

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      Custòdia
      31 March 2018 at 23:07

      lief van je, dankjwel wel xx <3

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    Amelie
    31 March 2018 at 14:28

    Het staat je beeldig! Geel is echt je kleur!

    • Reply
      Custòdia
      31 March 2018 at 23:08

      dankje wel, heel lief van je <3 :*

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    Dhini
    31 March 2018 at 12:48

    Mooi witte pak gecombineerd met okergeel! Mooi hoor! Staat je goed.

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      Custòdia
      31 March 2018 at 23:08

      fijn dat je de combinatie mooi vindt, dank je wel <3 <3 :*

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    karin
    31 March 2018 at 11:52

    ik ben dol op wit, het licht je gezicht altijd op. Maar een witte broek heb ik nog niet. Ziet er leuk uit!

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      Custòdia
      31 March 2018 at 23:14

      Je heb helemaal gelijk over wit, wit heeft zeker zijn voordelen, ik kan me best voorstellen want ik heb ook niet veel witte broeken deze was echt een uitzondering hahahah dank je wel <3 <3

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    Sylvahna.nl
    31 March 2018 at 10:38

    Dat pak staat je echt super goed!
    & i looooove your shoes ?

    • Reply
      Custòdia
      31 March 2018 at 23:12

      Lief van je dank je wel <3 <3

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    Nicole Orriëns
    31 March 2018 at 10:30

    Wat een mooi pak heb je aan! Het staat je goed. Zelf durf ik nooit wit te dragen omdat ik altijd overal vlekken op krijg.

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      Custòdia
      31 March 2018 at 23:10

      Dank je wel, het is inderdaad niet helemaal verstandig maar het mag af en toe wel, dank je wel voor je reactie <3 <3 :*

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        Nicole Orriëns
        1 April 2018 at 09:48

        Kleding hoeft ook niet altijd verstandig te zijn inderdaad. Soms moet je gewoon aantrekken wat je mooi vindt. Of het nou praktisch is of niet.

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    Luc van de Wiel
    31 March 2018 at 09:35

    Lovely site! BTW: it should say “We must allow ourselves to improve’. Sorry to be a stickler… 😉

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      Custòdia
      31 March 2018 at 10:31

      HAhahaha, I appreciate it, thank you so much 🙂

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