Imagine if all the plans you had planned or dreams that you have had or you still have they all just turn the way you always wanted? Life would be a wonder, without ups and downs, life would be much easier to be lived. But what would be the meaning of life if there was no ups and downs? Imagine that for a second …. okay enough.
As a child, we all have our dreams (life plans). A child with an innocent conscience has dreams and unlimited imagination. The more they begin to be more open to the world, the more they begin to realize that life has ups and downs and not everything is as they show in Disney movies. It’s a sad and also a moment of disappointment in a child’s life when they find out that they favorite world is just a fantasy world. That’s one of the reasons I’ve asked my 5 years son ( now 9yeras) to write his dreams and I must say it’s been a great lesson for me and he has taught me so many things. As his mother, I see things very different and each year he surprises me with his brilliant mind of him.

Believe in yourself, and the rest will fall into place. Have faith in your own abilities, work hard, and there is nothing you cannot accomplish.

Well falling down doesn’t always has to be something negative, the best thing to do when we fall is to know how we get up. And knowing how to deal with it (we’ve all heard of it) if it was so easy, as they say, we would not have a reason to suffer or not know how to handle any situations. But what happens when we turn this negative situation into something positive? If you once read the Bible you should be familiar with the story of
Joseph….. Joseph was sold by his own brothers to a man from Egypt (history). From what I have read and studied Joseph, didn’t have an easy life in Egypt. This situation, which he was in was so terrible, but because of his gift he had, he turned the whole situation in a positive way and it becomes one of the greatest blessings that the people of Israel ever had. Because Joseph becomes one powerful man of Egpyt’s and this power gave him an opportunity to save his entire families. This is one of the most beautiful and powerful stories in the Bible.

I’m most proud of the blessings that God has bestowed upon me, in my life. He’s given me the vision to truly see that you can fall down, but you can still get back up. Hopefully I’ll learn from my mistakes and have the opportunity to strengthen and improve the next thing I do.

It’s these kinds of stories that make me more opportunistic in my personal life. Personally, I am a very emotional person, especially when I am having low moments in my life. In the old days, I would totally give myself into the sadness of life, and it would take weeks before I could refind myself form the situation I was in before I would review the opportunities that come with it. Until one day I met my best friend, who taught me to see my greatness in my falls, he taught me to see things from another point of view, with him I’ve learned that not every fall is something negative, because those falls will teach me to be someone better and I will get up because I’m already on the ground and the only option I had was to get up and learn how to do things in a different way. With him, I’ve learned that it is with the falls that I will learn to know my strength so I can reach another point of life. Today I can say that my falls have been a great lesson in my life and I am grateful for it. I have learned that it is not the situation we are in that breaks us but the way we deal with the situation, that is what defines how we are.

For today outfits, I used to think that this type of clothing is not for me because of the type of my body. As a woman, I’ve been blessed with curves and sometimes I prefer to hide it then show them and most of the times that’s what I do. But as you can see I was wrong all this time, because it’s not about clothing, but how I wear it. We are the people who gave a lot definition to what we wear. I am happy with today’s clothing and this proves to me once again that it is not about the situation we are in but how we deal with it.


Espero que você gostou. Tenha um dia bonito e que Deus te abençoe, acima de tudo as suas expectativas
– HERCHAPTER – Por Custodia Chineva-


  1. This means so much to me, thank you so much for reading it. I’m glad you see thing with different eyes because behind every NO there is a YES closer… keep going after your dreams and you will get there…. 🖤✨💋😘

  2. Believe in yourself, and the rest will fall into place. Have faith in your own abilities, work hard, and there is nothing you cannot accomplish.

    ik HOU hier van én van je foto’s!


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