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HOW THE MOTHERHOOD TAUGHT ME TO HAVE PATIENCE

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Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.

I am the most impatient person I know, but I am learning that one of the virtues that patience has is that you learn to expect things to happen at the right time. Patience is something that is not in our genetics as a human being. As children, we grow to be impatient is part of human nature. We all know you can not make a promise to the kids, they do not have the patience to wait for anything when they want something, they want it today and now hahaha. The funniest thing is, that sometimes I still feel like a kid when it comes to having patience. But over time I had to learn that patience and time go hand in hand, and that to reach my dreams, goals and my needs I needed to have one as much as the other. They say nothing happens at the wrong time and being patient teaches me to let things happen in their own time. That time does not pass you without teaching you something. Time and patience they not only it gives us the opportunity to learn especially for the one who wants to learn with time, but it brings the necessary knowledge so that we can understand certain things in our life.

You can learn many things from children. How much patience you have, for instance. Patience is not simply the ability to wait – it’s how we behave while we’re waiting.

Patience is one of the words I always say, especially to my son. “Dear, you must have patience.” But I must confess that the more I said that word to him, the more I began to realize that I myself had to how to be patient. Being a mother has taught me a lot, but I must say that patience has been one of the things I had to learn with time. For me, the time has been one of the greatest gifts that exist, I am very grateful for the time I had to get know myself even better and understand things well. As a mother, I want to be a good example for my son, but I came to realize that sometimes I needed patience when I wanted something from him, because what happens when he or others demand something from me? this question made me reconsider my patience with him and the people around me. I began to realize how annoying it is when someone has to wait for me. And I’m learning to be more understandable and having more patience for a certain time.

I have seen many storms in my life. Most storms have caught me by surprise, so I had to learn very quickly to look further and understand that I am not capable of controlling the destinatio of life, but to exercise the art of patience and to respect the fury of nature.

I’ve been upset a thousand times over the lack of patience. Without understanding and patience to understand why someone is making me wait for something or when someone does not respond to my message or email and I must say that I do not remember that it made me feel better about myself. I acknowledge that I am impatient with nature and I hate it when someone makes me wait or when I have to depend on someone. If I could do it all by myself I would do it just to not depend on anyone. But I’m also well aware that I would not go very far if I do everything myself and that we all need each other for personal development and more. Through today’s experience, I know that patience has many advantages. Over time, these benefits are always helpful in my life. Because it is with patience that I learn to forgive, I learn to love and how people and things.

Sometimes we may ask God for success, and He gives us physical and mental stamina. We might plead for prosperity, and we receive enlarged perspective and increased patience, or we petition for growth and are blessed with the gift of grace. He may bestow upon us conviction and confidence as we strive to achieve worthy goals

I hope you like it. Have a beautiful day and may God bless you above all your expectations <3 
                         – COM MUITO AMOR, MET VEEL LIEFDE, WITH MUCH LOVE-                      – HERCHAPTER – By Custodia Chineva-

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19 Comments

  • Reply
    Sandy
    10 May 2018 at 11:40

    Heel erg herkenbaar, haha! Ik heb een geweldig tof lief zoontje met adhd en autisme, en een idem (ex) man, geduld is hier soms wel het toverwoord, 😉

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    Simone
    9 May 2018 at 20:24

    Geen ervaring met kinderen hier, wel met geduld hebben 🙂

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    Nicole Orriëns
    9 May 2018 at 08:22

    Het Moederschap is inderdaad een goede leerschool en tevens een spiegel waarin je jezelf terug ziet.

    N.B wilde op oudere post reageren, maar die hadden geen comment formulier.

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    Robin
    9 May 2018 at 00:03

    Love the way you shine in all your pictures, truly stunning

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    Mariëlle
    8 May 2018 at 23:56

    Wat een prachtige kledingset heb je weer uitgezocht! Die blazer met de hakken ik vind het je prachtig staan zeg!

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    Janine
    8 May 2018 at 23:21

    Wat Ben je toch een power vrouw! Ik heb echt geen geduld haha, maar ik leer elke dag weer om het wel te hebben.

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    alexa
    8 May 2018 at 18:25

    Jaja, dat hoort erbij daarom zou ik o dit moment nog niet moeten beginnen aan kinderen! mag ik zeggen dat je er fab uitziet!

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    Suzanna
    8 May 2018 at 16:38

    Mooi geschreven! Geduld heb je zeker nodig en niet alleen als ouder. Ik vind je outfit overigens fantastisch want het ziet er heel mooi uit maar is toch draagbaar!

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    Janet | thatonetime
    8 May 2018 at 16:07

    Ik ben niet heel erg geduldig en daar baal ik af en toe wel van. Ik werk in het onderwijs dus dan is geduld wel nodig… beetje bij beetje leer ik dat geduld een schone zaak is.

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    Argentina Fernandes
    8 May 2018 at 15:22

    Eu tenho também aprendido a ter paciência e não é nada fácil.

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      Custòdia
      8 May 2018 at 19:13

      Isso eu entendo muito bem, ter paciencia não è mesmo fàcil, isso vamos aprendendo com o tempo… fiquei super feliz por ver o teu comentaria volte sempre… beijosooo <3 <3

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    Melissa
    8 May 2018 at 13:35

    En geduld is soms moeilijk te behouden.

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    Anja
    8 May 2018 at 13:25

    Ze zeggen niet voor niets: geduld is een schone zaak en inderdaad: met kinderen leer je geduldig te worden.

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    Chaya
    8 May 2018 at 11:59

    Ze zeggen niet voor niets: geduld is een schone zaak. Het stuk is mooi geschreven.

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    Bianca Schrijft
    8 May 2018 at 11:42

    Patience, sometimes i have it, sometimes i don’t. It depends on the situation, the happening or the item i want to get. So, i’m also a child on that departement.

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    Anneke
    8 May 2018 at 10:38

    ja, het ouderschap vraagt geduld. En vaak is het ook een spiegel 🙂

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    Felice Veenman
    8 May 2018 at 10:06

    ik bleek een onvermoedde voorraad geduld te hebben. Maar als die op was…………

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    Nicole Orriëns
    8 May 2018 at 08:57

    Patience is indeed something you need often as a mother. Because kids take their own sweet time.
    I love, love, love your skirt by the way!

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    Laura | I scream beauty
    8 May 2018 at 08:45

    Mooi geschreven, ik ben kleuterjuf en er zitten 24 kleuters in mijn klas, dus ik móet wel geduldig zijn Haha!

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