Nowadays we have the habit of analyzing our days/time in advance. We make plans in advance, we want to know where, when and with whom we meet, because of that and many other factors from day to day, it makes us in a hurry to live fast. As a result, we often forget to enjoy the few times we have in a day. Besides the expectation that society expects from us, we also have our own commitment, plans and goals, we often do not make time to do fun things. Often we live making plans because we want to prioritize the most important things.

In addition to our own busy lives, society expects us to be involved in cohesion. We make many plans and live with so many responsibilities. We want to lead our lives according to our responsibility and plans. Despite all the  obligation, we would like to end our day with something that satisfies our feelings. Nothing gives us a feeling of satisfaction than when we have achieved our goals and it doesn’t matter if it was a small or a big goal, as long as you have reached it you enjoy it. For the one amon us who are mothers, housewives, girlfriends, friends, we often forget to enjoy our accomplishment, perhaps because we are so focused on living according to our plans and achieving goals and thereby we lose the concept of life

The world is moving so fast these days that the man who says it can’t be done is generally interrupted by someone doing it

With the concept of life, I mean enjoying our accomplished. Have fun in our daily commitment and especially enjoy our accomplished goals, because it’s not easy to being a woman. Therefore, we often forget to enjoy our free time.

I created this look to wear both as a useful and enjoyable, after a great and long day and yet your goals has been achieved, what you would like to do is relax and enjoy your achievement of the day. Obviously, you do not have time to go home and change your  clothes.
This look is mainly formalized by the style of the blouse, but because of the style of the skirt with flowers, this look gives a whole different twist which makes this look suitable for both formal and casual appointments. You can wear this look at work as well as lunch or dinner date.


Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.

I hope you like it.  Have a beautiful day and may God bless you above all your acceptation
– HERCHAPTER – By Custodia Chineva-



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  1. Je hebt wel gelijk: w ezijn zo vaak bezig met wat moet en zo weinig met wat er gebeurt…
    daarom maak ik elke dag een stevige wandeling, zonder gezelschap, zonder telefoon, gewoon om even te zijn…
    Beeldschone rok, bye the way…

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  3. You look absolutely amazing. Happy, radient and very confident. We plan too much in our day to day life, but sometimes it is necessary to come to grips with the chaos.

  4. Such great photo’s! Really love your skirt! And another lesson learned indeed; no one will ever be happy by living other people’s dreams. Or follow their thinkings. Been there, done that.

  5. You are absolutely right. We enjoy far too little of the things we achieve.
    Too bad you say that woman is heavy or can be. I’d rather say that it’s not always easy to exist as a human being. But that is my opinion 🙂
    About your clothes …. I think it suits you very well. Powerful clothing for a powerful person.

  6. You look stunning again! 🙂 And you are so right..we are looking too much foreward instead of enjoy the day today. Time goes fast but i know why, because we do this by our own..


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