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Nowadays, with the pressure of social media, it seems difficult to be or meet someone authentic. This is not because we all want to be similar, on the contrary. What we most want is to be different and to show our differences we dress or we do things and we think that no one has ever done it. We all are influences, we influence each other every day, both positive and negative. If you are being influenced by someone you know, I hope you are being influenced in a positive way.
Because at the end of it all you are the one being influenced, so you have to make sure that you are influenced in such positive way. No matter who that person is. The influence we have on each other doesn’t have to be a bad thing, because many of us grow up without parents, so when we see someone like Michael Obama as the first black lady in the White House, we automatically have an influence on thinking if she can, I also can (we can). The internet (love it) presents us with a platform where opportunities are unlimited. Because of the internet, we are able to have the opportunity to share our images, thoughts and often our opinions with a world we don’t even know.
We all seem to be the same because we all have the same human characteristics and with this world of social media. It seems like we are all doing the same things. But what makes us different from each other is our character, our way of being, that is what makes us different from everyone else. Our character, our tastes, our way of responding to certain issues is what identifies us. We can all buy the same clothes or the same shoes, but we will not style it the same way. This is what makes us different from each other, no one is like anybody else, and these and many other reasons is what makes us authentic. The fact that we influence each other doesn’t mean that we all need to similar. What makes us different is what makes us authentic. That is why it is very important to be yourself in any circumstances because you never know who can fall in love with your authentic side.
Don’t let the expectations and opinions of other people affect your decisions. It’s your life, not theirs. Do what matters most to you; do what makes you feel alive and happy. Don’t let the expectations and ideas of others limit who you are. If you let others tell you who you are, you are living their reality — not yours. There is more to life than pleasing people. There is much more to life than following others’ prescribed path. There is so much more to life than what you experience right now. You need to decide who you are for yourself. Become a whole being. Adventure
Today’s style is all about how to be influenced and still remains the same person, this style was inspired by this bag. When I saw this for the first time, I fell in love, for what it represents, by size, color, and history of the designer. Talking about being Authentic, all the clothes I wore in this picture are from different stores, nothing I wore was bought in the same store, but they influence each other in such a positive way. The colors match and it looks all well thought out, but still, they are very different. The bag is so authentic and unique yet very classic, that you can wear it at any occasion, this bag can and will be your best friend, for more information, please look at the designer website.
Because true belonging only happens when we present our authentic, imperfect selves to the world, our sense of belonging can never be greater than our level of self-acceptance.”
Eu espero que você goste. Tenha um dia bonito e Que Deus te abençoe acima de todas as suas expectativas
– COM MUITO AMOR, com muito amor, COM MUITO AMOR –
– HERCHAPTER – por Custodia Chineva-