Who doesn’t love a good date night? women in particular (most women) we love a date night, just to escape from the daily routine. Because of the effort, a man makes to plan a date night and the courage to ask his love, things like that we shouldn’t take for granted. I personally think women respect and appreciate the men who do these things to her. Date nights make women feel appreciated, makes women feel like a girl again, asking and worrying about what to wear and what kind of subject we’re going to talk about.

Date among lovers should not feel like a must, quite the contrary, it should be something to look forward to doing so because it is about the willingness to be with your love and spend quality time together. Something that used to happen at the beginning of a relationship, such as, surprising each other and asking each other to dinner and send a message to just to remind each other that you are thinking about each other. Oh, and those good mornings and have a nice day love in early morning messages or slept well my love, messages that can really brighten anyone’s day it’s so wonderful that something so small can have a big impact on our feeling and our daily routines.

But one thing I can say from my dating experience is that a physical attraction will only take you so far. So you definitely have to have a strong intellectual connection as well.

I love a man with a great sense of humor and who is intelligent – a man who has a great smile. He has to make me laugh. I like a man who is very ambitious and driven and who has a good heart and makes me feel safe. I like a man who is very strong and independent and confident – that is very sexy – but at the same time, he’s very kind to people.

Date nights should be something that feels normal for couples, no matter how long you guys are together, it should be something that both of you have to make time for. If a couple is together a long time, they have a habit of taking each other and their feelings for each other for granted. That makes love cools and sometimes it can even have a bad end … It’s about making an effort for the other, appreciating and making time for your love, there is a saying that “I would rather have peace than be right “This is my favorite” two wrongs don’t make a right ” I think people give up on love others because of the pride of maybe also because of pride or one gives more than the other.

For moms among us, date nights can be a struggle sometimes after taken care of the kids and do household and everything else, who is thinking of date nights? But date nights once a month shouldn’t be difficult right? A date shouldn’t matter if it is done by staying at home or leaving home, it will always be a good gesture of a date, as long as there is an effort and what to tell. But nothing feels better than, after having a long day at work, on your way home you look at your phone and see a text message that says. Wear something nice we are going on a date tonight (by something nice, he means something sexy but elegant) I will pick you up at 8:00. PS don’t worry about the kids, it’s all take care of, be ready by 8:00. I can not wait to see you, love H. Without any details, just like that, from a message your evening has got a different turn and exciting one.

An important part of dating is communicating. We communicate by sharing our thoughts, ideas, and feelings. We enjoy being with someone when we have an easy time communicating or when we have a lot to talk about.

On your way home all you can think about is what should I wear? after having so much stress about what to wear you think about a simple dress, or may a pant. Perhaps only a tightened trench coach with a lace lingerie underneath. But if you prefer all black outfit, but you may prefer another beautiful color, that shouldn’t be a  problem for your sweetheart, with this look you can’t miss the shelf, that may be said. On a date-nights, you can look classy, stylish and sexy at the same time, this look gives your sweetheart the opportunity to flirt with you, without you doing your best, let your look speak for you.

A simple compliment goes a really long way – for a guy to just come over and say, ‘You have great hair’ or ‘I really like your dress,’ and then just smile and walk away. That’s a great move.

In my own relationships, I know that I should break up with someone who doesn’t encourage me to be strong and make my own choices and do what’s best in my life, so if you’re dating someone who doesn’t want you to be the best person you can be, you shouldn’t be dating them.

Nothing defines humans better than their willingness to do irrational things in the pursuit of phenomenally unlikely payoffs. This is the principle behind lotteries, dating, and religion.

I hope you like it.  Have a beautiful day and may God bless you above all your  expectations <3
– HERCHAPTER – By Custodia Chineva-


  1. Je hebt helemaal gelijk. Mijn man en ik zijn al heel lang samen, maar zouden echt meer de tijd kunnen nemen voor elkaar. Zeker met een klein kindje is het makkelijk om die datenights voor je uit te schuiven. Love the outfit overigens.

  2. date nights zijn echt helemaal verdwenen hier nu de kinderen er zijn, eigenlijk zouden we ze veel vaker inboeten plannen. Je ziet er weer prachtig uit, wauw!


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