Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you can’t  be successful or happy.

Do you ever feel insecure at your work? It’sn’t pleasant to feel insecure and especially not at work. Hopefully that will change after reading this blog. I have a few tips that you can use if you are insecure at your workplace. We have all been uncertain or still are insecure, it is part of our emotions as a human being and sometimes being  insecure can also have it’s benefits, although if we don’t see that as something negative, because it makes you educational and you become aware of what exactly it makes you feel like that and it also helps you to overcome your fear. The first thing that makes people insecure is the feeling of not knowing something or not knowing how something works at workplace. It is also nice to realize that you don’t need to know everything and that asking is also good. That you don’t yet understand everything can give you an insecure feeling. Therefore, you can ask so many questions if you don’t understand something, because it is better to ask a lot of questions than to make a lot of mistakes. Knowledge, gives us a boost of more self-assured, but as soon as you understand something more, you feel more self-assured.

I surround myself with good people who make me feel great and give me positive energy.

Be careful with your own thoughts, it can also, lead his own life. Your thoughts can be your big enemy and at work you are often busy with your thoughts. Especially when you are insecure and you don’t socialize much at work then you are often alone and busy with your own thoughts and those thoughts can sometimes be very negative. If you start change your mindset your attitude will also change. Remmeber that you don’t get better at your work by thinking negatively about yourself. A positive attitude gives you a better view of your work and that helps boost for your self-confidence. If you start your day with a positive mindset, it has a positive effect on your whole day and that is a great feeling. Sometimes you have thoughts that are completely incorrect but if you have been overthinking it for a long time then you will start to believe in it and your feelings will lead you to feeling more insecure.

Choosing to be positive and having a grateful attitude is going to determine how you’re going to live your life.

Because every feeling starts with thoughts both negative and positive and the choice is always up to us to choose the right thoughts and that choice is entirely up to you, you have the power to determine how you can feel, although sometimes you have no influence on it but we always have the choice so it’s important to know that uncertainty is a feeling that you can manipulate by having positive thoughts. Although colleagues sometimes come across as they know everything at the workplace, these colleagues also have their own insecurity and, acting there knowing everything, is they way of hiding their own insecurity and make others insecure. It is also important to realize that nobody is perfect and that we are all people and we all have ups and downs. By realizing this, you can easily accept that everyone makes mistakes, and so do you. Let go of perfectionism and learn from the things that go wrong. In this way you also dare to try something new earlier. Not sure how you do it at work? Ask for feedback. This can give you a good picture of your own performance and provide insight into what your strengths are. You will also discover what you can still work on to get ahead. Don’t worry too much about your weaknesses, but focus on the things you are good at.

A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events and outcomes. It is a catalyst and it sparks extraordinary results.

Consider your successes and give yourself the opportunity to be proud. If you have all your strengths and successes in a row, you feel guaranteed to be confident. It may sound trite, but it can really work. By dressing well, appearing friendly and making eye contact with everyone, you create the impression that you are confident and have everything under control. And if the rest believe it, you will automatically believe it. Let’s face it, nothing gives you a good feeling than a well styled outfit. A good style appearance can give you a good feeling about yourself and it gives you confidence. Especially when you feel insecure, a good outfit can make you look like you are so confident and you feel confident and you worry less about your appearance and it can help your  build up band with your colleagues by complimenting each other now and then. I hope that after reading this blog you have something to help your uncertainty feeling.

I surround myself with good people who make me feel great and give me positive energy. I believe if you keep your faith, you keep your trust, you keep the right attitude, if you’re grateful, you’ll see God open up new doors.

I hope you like it.  Have a beautiful day and may God bless you above all your  expectations <3

– HERCHAPTER – By Custodia Chineva-


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  • Reply
    18 September 2019 at 06:31

    Sterk stuk en ben het compleet met je eens! Dat wat je uitstraalt, heeft effect op anderen. Oh en je kledingkeuze is echt weer geweldig!

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    17 September 2019 at 21:05

    Allereerst, wat een prachtig outfit, staat je echt super. En ja, kleding zorgt er inderdaad voor dat ik me zekerder voel, dus daar let ik wel op als ik ergens heen ga.

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    17 September 2019 at 07:25

    Leuk geschreven en wat zie je er geweldig uit!

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    16 September 2019 at 09:32

    Sterk geschreven! Als je zelf met een positieve vibe anderen tegemoet treedt zul je inderdaad zien dat anderen jou automatisch ook veel positiever tegemoet komen.

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    Melanie Hoogvliet
    16 September 2019 at 08:20

    Weer super mooi geschreven en ik ben een groot fan van je styling het ziet er altijd super uit!

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    16 September 2019 at 08:04

    Wat mooi geschreven weer Costodia, ik werk niet meer buitenhuis maar ga wel naar events toe, ik zorg dan altijd dat ik er goed uitzie, netjes en met hakken, dit geeft me meer zelfvertrouwen.

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