HAPPINESS IS A CHOISE

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Hello lovelies, thank you for all the love on my last chapter, I appreciate it ❤

The today chapter is quite personal, it’s about finding a happiness in a dark place. We all have those moments or days when we are sad and sometimes we get a feeling that we are stuck in a box without any escape from it. Sadness is something we all experience and I think it’s a very needing feeling. Because of sadness, we learn to appreciate the happiness, we learn how to be happy without getting or expecting it from someone else, you learn how to create your own happiness. But most of all we learn to not put your happiness in someone else’s hand and how to love our own company.

When we find our self in a sad place, it’s important to be aware of your own sadness, especially when we find our self in a box of sadness and then ask yourself the questions why and what makes me so sad? I believe the same reason or factor that makes you sad can be the same reason that can make you happy. The end of a relationship is something that we all have been through. But when you become aware of why it didn’t work out and you start ”wondering how long will I be sad?”

It’s not an easy path but when you get it you no longer wanna be in an unhappy place “The roots of learning to be happy are bitter, but the tranquility of finding that happiness has a very sweet taste.” Because of this pad, you will lose some friends, but that will give you the space you need to find new friends who can help you develop yourself in a professional and personal area, change can be very scary. It’s still an unknown way but hope and positivity can bring miracles especially if you have the right people around you.

Today I choose life. Every morning when I wake up I can choose joy, happiness, negativity, pain.To feel the freedom that comes from being able to continue to make mistakes and choices – today I choose to feel life, not to deny my humanity but embrace it.

Your inner can even be sad, but your appearance does not need to suffer from it. When we are satisfied with the choice of clothing we are wearing, we automatically send that feeling to our inner happiness, which increases your self-esteem, and that immediately affects people around you. In this picture, I’m wearing the color red, which symbolic the meaning of positive fighting, endurance, but red is also a color of passion, love, determination, courageous, strong emotional life. The color black stands for me as powerful and courageous and these features can also be discovered when we are sad, it can give you strength to see the light again at the end of the tunnel when you are not completely happy.

To finish this look I styled it with these dark blue shoes… which I’m in love with. This outfit is very chic casual because of the off shoulder top, which gives a different dimension to it. But instead of this top, I could also wear a shirt for another occasion

 ” What to fear? Anything. Who to fear? No one. Because? Because those who unite with God get three great privileges: omnipotence without power; drunkenness, without wine, and life without death. “

I hope you like it.  Have a beautiful day and may God bless you above all your acceptation 💋

– COM MUITO AMOR, MET VEEL LIEFDE, WITH MUCH LOVE –
– HERCHAPTER – By Custodia Chineva-

Hello lovelies, thank you for all the love on my last chapter, I appreciate it ❤

The today chapter is quite personal, it’s about finding a happiness in a dark place. We all have those moments or days when we are sad and sometimes we get a feeling that we are stuck in a box without any escape from it. Sadness is something we all experience and I think it’s a very needing feeling. Because of sadness, we learn to appreciate the happiness, we learn how to be happy without getting or expecting it from someone else, you learn how to create your own happiness. But most of all we learn to not put your happiness in someone else’s hand and how to love our own company.

When we find our self in a sad place, it’s important to be aware of your own sadness, especially when we find our self in a box of sadness and then ask yourself the questions why and what makes me so sad? I believe the same reason or factor that makes you sad can be the same reason that can make you happy. The end of a relationship is something that we all have been through. But when you become aware of why it didn’t work out and you start ”wondering how long will I be sad?”

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21 COMMENTS

  1. Muito Linda a historia Amiga estas de parabens. Me identifiquei muito com ela. Amo vermelho me apaixonei pelo casaco, que chik 👌

  2. Your outfit is really beautiful! Red is a beautiful colour which goes great on you.
    And yes, we all have those dark days/ periods. As long as we don’t forget about what makes us happy in life, we will get through it!

  3. Wat een mooi verhaal, zeg, helemaal gelijk heb je <3 Ik vind de rode tintjes wel helemaal te gek, en die jas vind ik echt prachtig! Die zou ik zo ook willen 🙂

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